How to gently help get your spouse some therapy for depression and maybe OCD?

I completely understand I am on the SAME boat as you! You just need to talk to him as much as possible about it. Trust me he knows something isn't right. I slowly talked to my husband about whats going on with him and got him to go see a therapist, only the dr was horrible and did nothing for him. He said he tried and was done. But as his depression and OCD was getting worse he is starting to open up about trying out another doctor.I got him to agree and made an appointment today. It will be hard to get your husband to talk to someone, but be there for him let him know you understand and go with him to his appointments. If anything just tell him you would like to go to a family therapist together. My husband thinks depression isn't real, but he knows something isn't right with him and he wants to be happy again.